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The Church that awaits Christ’s glory must learn how to speak to a difficult neighbor. Paul moves from the two appearings of Titus 2:11-15, The Grace That Appeared and the Blessed Hope into public life and then to the washing of new birth. The movement is not from high theology down to lesser concerns. God’s mercy reaches the person we are tempted to despise, because it first reached us.

“Remind them” follows the charge to speak, exhort, and rebuke in Titus 2:15. The Church already knows these things, yet needs them brought back to mind. Paul gives her two memories: what we were, and what God has done. Remembered bondage removes superiority. Remembered grace gives courage to become new. By verse 8, that new life has become deliberate service to others.

Public Gentleness and Remembered Bondage (Titus 3:1-3)

1 Remind them to be subject to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work, 2 to speak evil of no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men. 3 For we ourselves were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another.

Grace now enters public life. Titus serves churches across the towns of Crete, within the structures of Roman provincial rule. Paul calls Christians to ordered conduct, readiness for good work, peaceable speech, and gentleness. The Church should not become known for chaos, contempt, or the pleasure of reviling.

Civil obedience has a boundary: every earthly authority remains under God, so obedience cannot require complicity in evil or disobedience to Him. The normal Christian posture, however, is neither reflexive rebellion nor verbal contempt. It is disciplined participation in the common good, joined to a conscience governed by Christ.

Verse 2 becomes especially demanding in an age when public speech rewards mockery and outrage. “To speak evil of no one” reaches conversation, messaging, social media, parish disagreements, and political speech. It never forbids truthful testimony, reporting abuse or crime, or protecting a victim. Paul forbids the reviling spirit that enjoys reducing a person to the worst thing we can say about him.

The Greek phrase behind “showing all humility to all men” is πᾶσαν πραΰτητα πρὸς πάντας ἀνθρώπους, complete meekness or gentleness toward all people.1 The repeated “all” removes selective courtesy. Christian gentleness is not reserved for friends, fellow parishioners, or people who treat us fairly. Meekness is strength released from the need to injure. It can speak firmly, set boundaries, and seek justice without surrendering the heart to hatred.

Paul grounds this public ethic in memory: “we ourselves were also once” enslaved to deception, lust, pleasure, malice, and envy. Remembered sin need not become a shame-based identity. Verse 4 is about to say that divine kindness appeared. Yet memory protects the Church from superiority. If another person is still trapped in a passion from which Christ has begun to free us, contempt denies the mercy that rescued us.

Gems from the Fathers 💎: Mercy Cleanses Speech

St John Chrysostom turns Paul’s memory into a restraint upon the tongue: “Revile no one, for such also you were yourself.”2 Remembering deliverance should lead to prayer and thanksgiving, not to reproaching those still caught in sin. The believer looks at the person still deceived and remembers that mercy found him there too. Such memory cleanses correction. It replaces the pleasure of condemnation with grief, prayer, truthful warning, and hope.

Chrysostom also points to the thief who rebuked his companion’s reviling from a cross beside the Lord. The thief acknowledged his own guilt and the Lord’s innocence; then he asked to be remembered in Christ’s kingdom (Luke 23:40-42). The man who refused to join the mockery heard Christ’s promise in Luke 23:43: “today you will be with Me in Paradise.”3 Humility had not made him unable to distinguish innocence from guilt. It had made him truthful without contempt.

At Great Friday’s Sixth Hour, the Coptic Church gives this hope to every worshipper in the hymn: “Remember me O my Lord when You come into Your kingdom.”4 We do not stand over the thief to admire his humility. We ask for the mercy he received.

The examination is close to home. When someone fails, do we rush to tell the story in the form most damaging to his reputation? Public conflict does not excuse repeating claims before checking them. Grace trains speech toward truth without slander, courage without cruelty, and gentleness without hatred.

Mercy, Washing, Renewal, and Heirship (Titus 3:4-7)

4 But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, 5 not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, 6 whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

“But when” is the saving turn. Verse 3 described bondage; verse 4 announces an appearance. God’s kindness and love for mankind entered the condition we could not heal. Paul does not move from bad behavior to better advice. He moves from enslavement to divine mercy.

The Greek word φιλανθρωπία (philanthrōpia) means love for mankind or humanity.5 Paul joins it to God’s kindness and to the verb “appeared.” Divine love is not an abstraction hovering above human misery. It manifests itself and acts. God saves those who were foolish, deceived, and hateful, not because they made themselves attractive to Him, but “according to His mercy.” The gentleness commanded toward all people in verse 2 now has its deepest reason: God’s own love has moved toward humanity in its misery.

“Not by works of righteousness which we have done” removes boasting and every attempt to purchase salvation. It does not turn Paul against good works. Christ has already purified a people zealous for them, and verse 8 will command believers to maintain them. Paul distinguishes root from fruit. Mercy is the root. Good works are the fruit. Confusing them produces either pride, as though we saved ourselves, or sterility, as though mercy had no claim upon the life it renews.

Paul then names the saving gift: “the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit.” The Orthodox Church receives this language as Baptism, the washing in which God gives new birth by the Spirit. The Greek nouns λουτρόν (loutron), washing, παλιγγενεσία (palingenesia), regeneration or new birth, and ἀνακαίνωσις (anakainōsis), renewal, describe a gift deeper than improving an old habit.6 God does not merely hand the captive a better rule of life. He brings the captive into a new life.

Ezekiel 36:25-27 joins clean water, a new heart, and God’s Spirit within His people; the gift leads them to walk in His commandments.7 Joel promises, “I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh” (Joel 2:28, numbered 3:1 in the Septuagint), the promise St Peter proclaims at Pentecost (Acts 2:16-17).8 Beside these promises, Paul’s “whom He poured out on us abundantly” is not the language of reluctant help. The Father saves according to mercy, the Spirit renews, and this abundant gift comes through Jesus Christ our Savior.

Baptism is more than an outward symbol of a private decision. It is also never a human achievement or an autonomous mechanism. The acting subject is God: He loved, appeared, saved, poured out, justified, and made heirs. The baptized person receives a gift and is called to live from it in ongoing repentance. The old habits may still demand obedience, but they no longer possess the final claim. The Spirit renews the person toward the life of Christ.

Gems from the Fathers 💎: New Birth for the Whole Person

St Cyril of Alexandria, explaining the Lord’s words about water and the Spirit in John 3:5, describes healing that reaches both soul and body. He writes that “by the Spirit is the spirit of man sanctified,” while the body is sanctified through the water.9 His image is homely and exact: water in a kettle receives the power of the fire; so the baptismal water, through the Spirit’s working, receives a divine efficacy and sanctifies those it touches. The water is not a rival to the Spirit’s action. The Spirit acts through it. St Cyril helps us hear Paul’s washing and renewal as the healing of the whole person in one saving gift.

St Cyril of Jerusalem makes the same bodily and spiritual unity clear: “the water cleanses the body, and the Spirit seals the soul”10. He tells those approaching Baptism to look beyond bare water to salvation through the Holy Spirit’s power. St Gregory of Nazianzus, writing on Baptism rather than commenting on Titus, likewise says, “the cleansing also is twofold, by water and the spirit”11. The visible washing and invisible renewal belong together. God saves embodied persons, not souls for whom the body is an inconvenience.

St John Chrysostom brings out the depth of Paul’s word “regeneration.” A ruined house is not propped up or patched; it is pulled down to its foundations and rebuilt. So God “has not repaired us, but has made us anew.”12 Repair keeps the old object and restores its function. Paul’s language reaches deeper. In Christ, the Spirit gives new birth, a new relation to God, and a new hope as heirs of eternal life.

This does not mean the baptized never struggle. It means struggle now occurs inside a gift. Repentance is not crawling back toward a God who has withdrawn His mercy. It is returning to the grace already given, renouncing what contradicts the new life, and asking the Holy Spirit to renew what sin has wounded.

Verse 7 names the future opened by that mercy. Having been justified by grace, we become heirs according to the hope of eternal life. God gives more than release from an accusation: He opens an inheritance. The former slaves of passions need not live as though their old masters still owned the future. Their hope rests in God’s promise, and its living expression is grateful repentance, prayer to the Holy Spirit, faithful participation in the Church, and works suited to the new creation.

Careful to Maintain Good Works (Titus 3:8)

8 This is a faithful saying, and these things I want you to affirm constantly, that those who have believed in God should be careful to maintain good works. These things are good and profitable to men.

Paul ends this movement where he must: with good works. After mercy, washing, renewal, justification, and heirship, believers must become careful about doing what is good. “Careful” excludes accidental virtue. Mercy trains attention. It teaches a person to notice what love requires and to sustain service after the first emotion has passed.

The Greek gives Paul’s command unusual force. Titus must διαβεβαιοῦσθαι (diabebaiousthai), affirm these things insistently. Believers must φροντίζωσιν (phrontizōsin), take thought or care, to προΐστασθαι (proistasthai) good works, giving them sustained attention.13 Paul is not asking for sporadic generosity. He wants a Church that plans to be useful.

“These things are good and profitable to men.” The benefit reaches other people. Good works include money, but they also include time, hospitality, advocacy, protection, patient teaching, meals, transportation, truthful professional labor, care for children and elders, and attention to needs that bring no recognition. Titus 3:9-15, Avoiding Division, Bearing Fruit sharpens the contrast: useful works stand against useless disputes, and believers learn to meet urgent needs rather than remain unfruitful.

This is mercy made public. The person who has received kindness becomes kind. The one whose reviling was forgiven cleanses his speech. The one renewed by the Spirit stops treating service as a stage for importance. The Church does not perform good works to prove that grace was deserved. She maintains them because grace has appeared, and because her neighbors should receive something of the goodness God has shown her.

The Church’s Voice in Worship ⛪

At Baptism. In the Coptic rite of Baptism, at Consecrating the Water, the Church reads Titus 2:11-3:7 with 1 John 5:5-14, Acts 8:26-39, and John 3:1-21.14 Paul’s washing of new birth is heard beside the Lord’s words in John 3:5: “unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.” Hearing these words over the baptismal water brings Paul’s promise close: God’s mercy is not only being described. A person is about to receive the washing of new birth in the Church.

St Philip, one of the Seven Deacons, Baba 14. The Church commemorates his departure on this day. Its appointed Liturgy readings, heard on October 24, 2026, are Titus 2:11-3:7, 1 John 5:5-13, Acts 8:26-39, Psalm 32:1-2 (LXX 31:1-2), and John 3:1-21.15 In Acts, Philip proclaims Jesus to the Ethiopian, who asks, “See, here is water. What hinders me from being baptized?” (Acts 8:36). The Gospel announces new birth, the Psalm blesses the forgiven, and the deacon brings a traveler to baptismal water. Read together, these passages show mercy reaching a person through another person’s attentive service.

The same Titus reading is the Pauline Epistle at the Theophany Liturgy, Toba 11, whose Acts reading ends with the Spirit coming upon the newly baptized disciples at Ephesus (Acts 19:1-6). The Church hears the appearing of kindness and the abundant outpouring of the Spirit together.

Spiritual Fruit 🍇

Use remembered mercy to cleanse your speech. The impulse to revile often hides wounded pride, political anger, parish rivalry, or the relief of feeling superior. Before repeating a damaging story, ask whether it is true, necessary, and yours to tell. If harm must be named, speak to the person or authority able to protect and correct. If it need not be told, let mercy close your lips.

Return to the grace of your baptism instead of living as though only repair were possible. Some Christians accept forgiveness but expect never to become different. Titus speaks of washing, new birth, and renewal by the Holy Spirit. When an old habit returns, refuse both despair and complacency. Pray to the Holy Spirit, repent concretely, receive the Church’s healing, and begin again from the truth that God is making a new person in Christ.

Plan one good work that will be profitable to another person. Vague goodwill easily leaves urgent needs untouched. Identify one person, family, parish ministry, neighbor, or coworker who would genuinely benefit from your time, skill, advocacy, hospitality, or material help. Decide what you will do and when. Let the work remain hidden if recognition would feed your vanity. Mercy becomes visible through sustained usefulness.

Footnotes

  1. Bible Hub, Titus 3:2. ↩

  2. St John Chrysostom, Homily V on Titus, on Titus 3:1-3, New Advent. ↩

  3. St John Chrysostom, Homily V on Titus, on Titus 3:2, New Advent; Luke 23:40-43, NKJV. ↩

  4. Coptic Holy Pascha, Great Friday, Sixth Hour, Remember Me O My Lord (Coptic Reader). ↩

  5. Bible Hub, Titus 3:4; Thayer, φιλανθρωπία, Bible Hub. ↩

  6. Bible Hub, Titus 3:5; nouns given in their dictionary forms. ↩

  7. Brenton, Ezekiel 36:25-27. ↩

  8. Brenton, Joel 3:1, corresponding to NKJV Joel 2:28; Acts 2:16-17, NKJV. ↩

  9. St Cyril of Alexandria, Commentary on John, Book II, on John 3:5, pp. 168-169, Library of the Fathers edition, CCEL. ↩

  10. St Cyril of Jerusalem, Catechetical Lecture 3.4, on Baptism and John 3:5, New Advent. ↩

  11. St Gregory of Nazianzus, Oration 40.8, On Holy Baptism, NPNF2 7, p. 362, CCEL. ↩

  12. St John Chrysostom, Homily V on Titus, on Titus 3:5, New Advent. ↩

  13. Bible Hub, Titus 3:8; Thayer, προΐστημι, sense 2c, Bible Hub. ↩

  14. Coptic rite of Baptism, Consecrating the Water (Coptic Reader): Pauline Epistle, Titus 2:11-3:7; Catholic Epistle, 1 John 5:5-14; Acts 8:26-39; Gospel, John 3:1-21. ↩

  15. Coptic Synaxarium, Baba 14, “The Departure of St. Philip, One of the Seven Deacons” (Coptic Reader). Coptic Katameros, Baba 14, Liturgy: Pauline Epistle, Titus 2:11-3:7; Catholic Epistle, 1 John 5:5-13; Acts 8:26-39; Psalm 32:1-2 (LXX 31:1-2); Gospel, John 3:1-21. October 24, 2026. ↩

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